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Sunday, October 30, 2005

Forgiveness

Forgiveness
...And how I lost me and you lost you
What are these voices outside love's open door
Make us throw off our contentment
and beg for something more?
I'm learning to live without you now
But I miss you sometimes
The more I know, the less I understand
All the things I thought I knew, I'm learning again
I've been tryin' to get downto the heart of the matter
But my will gets weak
and my thoughts seem to scatter
But I think it's about...forgiveness
Forgiveness
Even if, even if you don't love me anymore
Ah...these times are so uncertain
There's a yearning undefinedand people filled with rage
We all need a little tenderness
How can love survive in such a graceless age?
Ah...the trust and self-assurance that lead to happiness
They're the very things - we kill I guess...
Ohh pride and competition
cannot fill these empty arms
And the work I put between us
you know it doesn't keep me warmI
'm learning to live without you now
But I miss you, baby
And the more I know, the less I understand
All the things I thought I'd figured outI have to learn again
I've been trying to get downto the heart of the matter
But everything changes
and my friends seem to scatter
But I think it's about...forgiveness
Forgiveness
Even if, even if, you don't love me anymoreT
here are people in your life who've come and goneT
hey let you down, you know they hurt your prideY
ou better put it all behind you baby; cause' life goes on
If you keep carryin' that anger, it'll eat you up inside, baby
I've been trying to get downto the heart of the matter
But my will gets weakand my thoughts seem to scatter
But I think it's about forgiveness
Forgiveness
Even if, even if you don't love me
I've been tryin' to get down
to the heart of the matter
Because the flesh will get weakand the ashes will scatter
So I'm thinkin' about forgiveness
Forgiveness
Even if, even if, you don't love me...
Forgiveness (yeah)
Forgiveness (baby)
Forgiveness (ohh)
Forgiveness (ahh yeaaahhh)
Forgiveness (ohh)
Forgiveness
Even if, you don't love me anymore...~Don Henley
I am thinking about what a gift it is to forgive. Whether the other person knows it or not. It is unimportant because I am thinking that forgiveness is a gift that we give to ourselves. To move on. To move forward. Unimportant that the forgiveness travels to that other person because it is a release for us to let go of the burden of anger. To let go of the disappointment. Feeling let down. Fear that is bottled up inside that keeps us from being the whole and contented person we were blessed to be. Our inheritence from God almighty.
Bliss, contentment, joy and complete happiness are extinguished by fear. Disappoinment. Anger.
Happiness, joy, contentment found in the release. In the forgiveness. Forgiveness of yourself first. No longer the fool. The manipulated. The victim.
Forgiveness knowing you did the best you could at the time. You know better now. You will do better now.
Forgiveness for the manipulator. The predator. The one who sleeps off the Goldschlager. Then. More than likely now.
He did the best he could at the time. Who knows if he knows better now? It is unimportant.
Release. Let go. Grow.
Forgiveness. The gift you give to yourself.
Forgive.
Release.
Life.
The gift.

16 Comments:

Blogger kath said...

you are wise... and you know the way to find peace..

sending energy ..

be at peace in your heart...

may you have contentment.. and happiness and love in your every day

take care
k

5:25 PM  
Blogger Nancy said...

Forgiveness enables one less thing that jumbles up our heads and hearts. Letting go, is very important and lets us move on Lighty!

Hugs,
Nancy

5:57 PM  
Blogger Dr. Deborah Serani said...

This is one of the most touching songs Don Henley has ever written, in my opinion, of course.

I agree with you, forgiveness is not only something you render to another, it is a healing gift that you give yourself.

~Deb

7:07 PM  
Blogger for_the_lonely said...

Forgiveness is such a great gift that can only be given by even a greater person. You are loved!

Love,
Sarah

8:23 PM  
Blogger HolyInheritance said...

True forgivenss is when

ALL illusions are forgiven,

And ONLY Truth remains.

11:02 AM  
Blogger Groove said...

Forgiveness is a gift to ourself. No Question...

I love This blog, I will be back!

2:33 PM  
Blogger Karen said...

to forgive does set you free.
to move on, heal, embrace life again, new and awake.
we can't always fix the things that go wrong in life but we can move forward and let go of the hurt and anger that hold us back.
you are doing very well Lighty:)
each day the dawn will fill you back up again--a reminder of the new path you are blazing in life.
hugs,
Karen

5:48 AM  
Blogger Cindy said...

:)

5:53 PM  
Blogger NewYorkMoments said...

Hey---thanks for posting this. I really needed to read that today. :-)

5:46 AM  
Blogger Rose said...

You can love when you forgive

11:41 PM  
Blogger queencarolyne said...

To forgive is to heal. May your healing continue. I enjoy your posts.

What doesn't kill us only makes us stronger. I think I've turned into iron!

Peace.

4:07 PM  
Blogger nosthegametoo said...

There's only one person in my life I haven't truly forgiven. I'm not sure if I want to, and I know I'm not ready. But I also know that eventually, it has to happen. I suppose I'm just putting it off.

10:57 PM  
Blogger Sarah said...

Hello Lady!

Just dropping by to see how you are. I send you hugs.
Sarah

1:40 PM  
Blogger Traci said...

Hello my friend! It's Thursday the 10th and I'm stopping by to say hi. I've been thinking of you and missing you too!

2:20 PM  
Blogger Playground in my Mind said...

Hi Lightly...I cannot read this message. I am not there, but I did drop by to see how you are.
I think of you often and pray for your peace of heart, mind and spirit. Blessings to you, Renee

5:08 PM  
Blogger chase said...

this really relates to something I wrote last night, and I think that it's the whole point of what i was trying to get out....i dont think im there yet....

my favorite quote is "that which doesnt kill me makes me stranger

lol

2:37 PM  

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